By Yuko Sensei

In this informative video lesson, Yuko Sensei dives deep into one of the most commonly used yet misunderstood aspects of the Japanese language—the use of honorifics like さん (san). She starts by explaining why Japanese people add 'san' after names, such as in 'Suzuki-san' or 'Yuki-san', highlighting how this shows respect and is the default polite suffix in everyday communication.

Throughout the video, Yuko Sensei discusses the cultural and social significance of using さん and other honorifics like くん (kun), ちゃん (chan), and さま (sama). She illustrates the gender, social, and hierarchical contexts in which these suffixes are used, guiding learners on how to use each appropriately. Importantly, she introduces the concept of よびすて (yobisute), when someone is addressed by name only without any honorific, and explains why this might be seen as overly casual or even rude unless the relationship warrants such familiarity.

Listeners also get a brief overview of more formal or respectful suffixes like さま (sama), often used in customer service or highly formal settings, and when 男性 and 女性 might use くん or ちゃん to refer to juniors, peers, or children. One key takeaway is the Japanese maxim mentioned in the video: 'したしきなかにも、れいぎあり (Even among close friends, there should be courtesy)', reinforcing why honorifics like さん are so deeply ingrained in Japanese interpersonal communication.

To wrap up, Yuko Sensei offers viewers a quick knowledge test and encourages learners to comment their answers. This video is a must-watch for Japanese learners who want to not only understand grammar but also navigate the subtleties of social interaction in Japanese culture with respect and awareness.